“I will not try to control the uncontrollable.”
“We want you to reach the place where you are willing… determined… eager… to let go of the need of control of things that are uncontrollable- like what anybody else is doing- and give your undivided attention to the only thing you can control, which is how you feel in any given circumstance.”
The above is from Getting Into The Vortex Cards by Esther and Jerry Hicks.
Be willing to let go of control and affirm, I surrender the need to control. Add on to that what feels good and applies to your situation. For example; I surrender the need to control. I trust Life. I am safe. All is well and I am open to new possibilities.